Your kids have an issue? Change your own behavior and watch them improve...
Really? I change myself to help my child?
Yes… when you change, they change naturally.
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Trust your kids.
If you trust your kids to take care of their physical safety, they will. If you think they will hurt themselves, they will… so watch out what you are assuming… in thought and in speech.
Drop your assumptions that you know what’s best for them. Unless you are truly happy, you can’t teach them a thing.
Facilitate, but don't meddle.
Listen, and learn.
Respect your child’s inherent wisdom.